Hazelwood and Florrisant stick out as middle class suburbs with a decently sized black population, but the percentage of the adult population with a bachelor's degree or higher is less than 25%.I lived in Rock Hill, which has a solid % black population, but a small overall population.My attempts to date interracially have mostly failed.... No one wants to be ashamed or embarrassed to bring a guy around friends & family. or see embed below: The white male is synonymous with money and success. There is this thing in the Black Community (God I hate that term)... This is ingrained in the minds of most Black women. Black women today (particularly those 21-35 give or take a few years) are trained to look for different traits and characteristics when determining what the ideal guy is. That is like a badge of honor..women reward these men accordingly... Of course there are also the Black women who have the shallow physical standards -- as mentioned before the 6ft rule is a common one...often a dealbreaker. Even the BBC recently did a story on segregation in present day St. Even back then (early 1990's) it seemed more socially progressive.
The thing is, many of these smart, successful younger black women need to look no further than their computer screen.Search Black Men in Saint Louis | Search Black Women in Saint Louis singles Cape Girardeau singles in Grandview Chesterfield singles Saint Louis singles singles Bridgeton Florissant singles Jefferson City singles Springfield MO singles Hazelwood singles singles in Columbia O' Fallon singles Saint Ann MO singles singles in Joplin singles Sikeston singles in Saint Robert singles in Ballwin Blue Springs singles singles Saint Joseph singles Warrensburg singles in Saint Peters Lee's Summit singles Saint Charles MO singles Maryland Heights singles singles in Independence Kansas City MO singles Alabama Alaska Arizona Arkansas California Colorado Connecticut DC Delaware Florida Georgia Hawaii Idaho Illinois Indiana Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York North Carolina North Dakota Ohio Oklahoma Oregon Pennsylvania Rhode island South Carolina South Dakota Tennessee Texas Utah Vermont Virginia Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Creating a Great Dating Profile on Black People How do Black Singles Find Dates in New York?For Men: Making the Connection For Men: Making the Transition from Dating Online to Offline Dating & Relationship Tips from a Black Mom Creating a Great Dating Profile on Black People How do Black Singles Find Dates in New York?I pulled the profile shot above from a popular online dating site. for some, just 20 or 30% thug is enough to satisfy their twisted fantasies or their biological urges..yes... A recent study concluded that women are basically tricked by biology into picking the wrong men...when they know he's the wrong one...This is the kind of nonsense that I have to deal with as a Black guy. their sub-conscience (driven by hormones) drives them to make stupid choices.The Internet offers numerous dating sites dedicated to helping women find rich men, and they have proven successful in making matches for long term relationships.While many still scoff at being able to find a man online, there is plenty of evidence that it is quickly becoming a great option.Now I wasn't interested in the person above, however, her sentiment is shared by 95% of non-Black women on the online dating sites. Why would a non-Black woman want to date a guy like me (Black, a public worker-- so not earning very much money-- only slightly above avg looking..told he's handsome, 40--- so Black and Old... some of these women could be considered top tier... This would explain why women end up with the same types of men almost every time. I would, in all likelihood, have more success in a State like Texas (one of my adopted home States).This individual was just bold enough to come out and say it. They just do it passively by not contacting Black men or not responding. ) when she can have a great White, Asian, Indian, or Hispanic guy..more money, nice toys (cars, etc), and she can avoid all of the staring and ugly comments..the backlash and embarrassment from friends and family? they won't have tainted skin (unfortunately there are people who think this way). PBS and Independent Lens, recently took a look at this subject (See Video). has to have tattoos, has to have this thing they call "swag" (just typing that was painful... and he has to be at least rough around the edges..a criminal record won't hurt either. I have known, read about..plenty of good looking women of color... But it's not just poor women w/ low education making these choices or who have these stupid dealbreakers. since I don't fit that image (the idiotic, aggressive, obnoxious rapper) I am not on radar screens of most Black women. I loved Texas for the few years I lived there growing up.After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.How would it be for a black woman who grew up around mostly Caucasians and African Americans that thought like her.