This is a subject that is interesting to both Black women and White men.In fact, I have myself been working on a book entitled “Why White Women Love Black Men,” though my publisher has suggested I change the title to “You Stupid Bitch, WTF is Wrong with You?One that that is obvious is that a WFBM relationship is much less likely than a WFWM relationship to result in marriage, and much more likely to result in pregnancy and childbirth.
Are some guys just born naturally attractive to women, or is it how a man lives his life that makes him attractive?It is also, as the book asserts, a status symbol for Black men that they got a White girl. Interestingly, I watch the Breakfast Club a lot, which is a Black talk show available on You Tube (I highly recommend it for anyone interested in examining the psychology of Black people), and the female side-host of the show (or whatever you call that, she isn’t really a “co-host”), Angela Yee (who has a Chinese father somehow) is obsessed with asking the male guests, generally rappers and Black actors, if they date White women.Almost all of them will say no, they prefer Black women, indicating that Persaud’s assertion that this is a way for Black men to boost their self-esteem is true, as already successful Black men are not interested in interracial dating (this could also be partly due to the fact that successful Black men have access to the most attractive Black females, while the average Black male has to deal with fat Black women, and a fat White woman is more attractive to a Black male than a fat Black one).The increased success rate was probably something marginal, but over hundreds of thousands of years, even a marginal advantage becomes extremely noticeable and widespread throughout a species.2) This genetic programming is based on what works in an environment that is VERY different from the environment we live in now.He’ll be your strength, your joy and your safety net. He’s single, straight and seems commitment interested; he invited you to call him Benny within minutes after you met. ” You ignored the warning of the wince, tried not to notice that he appeared weak-kneed, and held onto to his stammered reply, “I don’t want to lose you” like a life preserver in a stormy sea. In other words, what your partner says better be backed up by behavior that is consistent; do what most men do, adapt to this part of male psychology—be a behaviorist.You’ll be his lover, his best friend, and his anchor in life. He makes you laugh, and he actually listens to what you have to say. Men are less interested in words, and more interested in Show Me!Not all of us will be fortunate enough to be celebrating this Valentine’s Day with the love our life. Remember Mark, you stuck with him through five rehabs.To help you find happieness for next Valentine’s Day our very own Board Certified Couple Therapy Professional Psychologist, Dr. Ah, yes, close your eyes and let the fantasy play out on the movie screen in your head. You gave great advice to Jeremy who confessed to “intimacy issues.” Your advice was so good he left you for your (former! Before it gets that far, take stock of your own empathic tendencies by asking yourself the following questions: If you answer “yes” to three or more of the above, you may be hindering your own chances to find happiness by not making your man take responsibility for his own actions. Consider that you may be one of the many women who suffer from what I call pathological empathy.Assessment | Biopsychology | Comparative | Cognitive | Developmental | Language | Individual differences | Personality | Philosophy | Social | Methods | Statistics | Clinical | Educational | Industrial | Professional items | World psychology | Social psychology: Altruism · Attribution · Attitudes · Conformity · Discrimination · Groups · Interpersonal relations · Obedience · Prejudice · Norms · Perception · Index · Outline Significant age disparity in sexual relationships has been a feature of both heterosexual and same-sex couples in many cultures and societies.The most common pattern in heterosexual couples is an older man with a younger woman.