' I personally am open to the option but not since middle school has a man been attracted to me outside my race that I was also attracted to or aware of.Regardless of race there are certain attributes I want in a man that I'm in a relationship with; integrity and good character, nice teeth, confidence, self-respect, the ability to earn, provide, protect and a few other traits that my grandfather taught me a man should possess.Only a small percentage of Colombian women on the website indicate a preference for skin color.
However, the experience I have seen with the Black men who have used our Romance Tour Service is that they are just as successful as other men. Looks, weight, height, personality and presentation rank way above race as a point of interest. Both the quality and quantity of receptive and interested women of all hues in Colombia and some other places in Latin America is so great that whatever biases exist simply don´t matter.Your choices are: A: Black man who is unattractive but you and he have a lot in common and can have conversations.B: White man who is very attractive, but lacks intelligence and you don't have anything in common.I asked Black women who are married, single, divorced and dating this question: You're being sent to a habitable planet and you're now 'Eve'.You get to take one man, 'Adam', with you to start a new civilization. When I was 16, I had no idea about what Mexicans are all about. He was one of my inspirations in traveling South America. Okay, I am officially naming my first son after him.’ This guy is the love of my life! If you can't get her name right, you can't get her number. Don't spit in your girlfriend's grandmother's face.9. Introduce her as your [insert ethnicity here] girlfriend. I don't care if her name is super-hard to pronounce, like Xochitl. It's like what Maury says: "You are NOT the father," so stop asking her call you dad.7. Oh, it's cute that you think you have a shot in hell at winning. In Latino culture, turning down someone's food is the same as spitting in their face. If you messed up and we get mad, take responsibility.10.For some Black women, a man must be Black; first, foremost and always.At the end of a "The Nightly Show" segment, Larry Wilmore asked Jacque Reid a 'Keeping It 100' question that I have since adopted and asked of other Black women to see what motivates us when we think about our relationships.