So many men are often put off by dating a single mom, and I have to say it's a little mystifying to me.
Don't you wanna be the guy at the receiving end of that? No Biological Clock Ticking At You I hear this from guys all the time: "If I date a woman in her 30s, she wants to know where it's going and when we're getting married and having babies within, like, 3 months!
Kids can be great bonuses to meeting someone new and they can also be nightmares just as easily.
When a man gets older he realizes that the chance of meeting a childless woman thins dramatically and the question of “how” may come to his mind in dealing with a child that isn’t his.
The single parent dilemma is felt the hardest by the children, and as a product of such a household I am lucky enough to have this insight in my dating life.
Many guys just don’t know how to deal with a child that isn’t theirs and it becomes immediately evident to the child, even when the mom is disillusioned into thinking that the guy is perfect.
I would definitely not let a woman that you really really like slip through your hands because she has a child. You will end up payig for someone else's child & raising someone else's child ? You will always have hostility from the father, possibly serious.4.
Just take it slow before you play any type of father figure role in the childs life though. You will get less attention from her than you would from a woman with no kids.
Ask your Teen: If you have a teenager it is very important that you get their approval after an introduction or two is made with your potential lover.
If your kid has daddy issues, as in wanting you to stay alone in hopes of your ex coming back into your life – then go ahead and skip the introduction to the new guy.
Now I would really like to see how things go but I am a touch apprehensive about the situation but probably more so at people saying I must be crazy although I feel really excited at the thought of dating this girl and seeing where it leads.
So would you guys still date someone who you really liked if they had a child?