“They make assumptions that I can’t have sex or I’m not capable of being in a relationship,” she says.
“That because I have a physical disability, I don’t have full mental capacity. These experiences mean that Renke can easily relate to new statistics showing that half of the British public has never started a conversation with someone disabled.
It was a lighthearted piece, and I thought that like all the others it would never be read. A few days later, it had gone mental RTs via Twitter, countless shares Facebook and it was even discussed by Men in my local. I thought I’d give you eligible men 49 reasons why dating me is just amazing.. discrimination or just personal frustration I have always been massively determined,and apparently Men like a Woman who knows her own mind?
Best Seat in the House So your new girl is Disabled, . Not only that but if she loves music like I do, you will go to gigs. On the cabbage patch is where you will sit, closer than ever to the stage with handy access to the bar! Always smiling, always polite Your Mother is going to Love Me….
Well, this was a first, so feeling a bit bold, I asked him to guest-post from the male perspective on a question that has nagged me since my days in high school when I’d look at other girls and how the guys easily flocked to them.
The question: Why are guys so reluctant to date – at the very least, approach – a woman with a disability? We have the same wants, passions, desires and (gasp! I’ve seen the stares from guys — and I’m not talking about seductive stares either, here.
Reason I ask is an acquaintance of mine has been asked out by a disabled man that has a decent job in an office and lives on his own, however he does have a disability.A few years ago, I used to blog under a different account, It was general ramblings about the things that entered my head, nobody really read it, or took much notice. Wheelchairs are far more superior and don’t have wonky wheeels!That was until I published a post called 10 reasons why Dating a Disabled Girl is the best thing you’ll Ever do. Fancy Gadgets My house is equipped with Gadgets to help me round the house, be it a through floor lift a personal washing toilet, massive wet room or a bed that sits you up, loving me could feel futuristic Determined I have dealt with massive amounts of crap in my life, whether it be .There is no escaping the fact that I will get accosted and occasionally offended by the odd twat. Make your life easier You may not think that I can teach you how you can make life easier, but I can, Years of finding simple tasks a slight struggle have meant I have done things my own way…I am however an expert in remaining polite and and nice, I’m just the kinda girl you could take home to your Mum. If I ever by some miracle gain the ability to walk though you may be in big trouble! You be surprised what I can open with just my teeth!You’d be amazed how strong my arms could get just from using a walker for 20 years.They’re like giant muscles of steel, only smaller and dotted with cute freckles.She told me he's a nice guy but his disability really bothers her and when he asked her on a date she kind of dodged answering him and wanted to think about it.He can't reach things that are above his chest and depending on the food needs help having it cut up and lots of other misc things. Pesonally I see no reason for a pity date as JJS is suggesting just to make someone feel good. If I am not interested, that's it, I'm not interested.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members.