So here are five different dates that will rekindle the romance in your long-term relationship.
Recreate Your Most Memorable Dates Remember when you first met in line at Starbucks? Or your second date at the sushi bar downtown (and you both found out he's allergic to seafood ... Or the apartment complex where you had your first big fight (and amazing makeup sex later).
Do one of the other date ideas here and take pictures to remind you of this summer. Lay down the tailgate and just enjoy looking up at the stars and talking. When was the last time you attended the country fair? So while you might not cover the ground of your backyard with peanut shells or sit on haystacks, you can do almost everything else (use this at-home county fair date night checklist idea list) – including make homemade caramel apples! (“One thing to remember,” Kris “Kroll” Woods who submitted this idea reminds us, “The ground is dewy, so plan ahead for shoes, towel for the table, etc.) 12. In the south, when you tell folks you’re having a fish fry, everyone you know shows up! Get out a huge bowl, pop some of your favorite popcorn, stream or rent the movies, make your own movie theater Icees (oh yeah, these can be made at home! You can use a dictionary, the computer, and anything else that will inspire you to write the best vows.
Be sure to include a note to the capsule’s future retrievers. And if there is a concert series or sporting event nearby, why not pull your truck right up to that? Create a DIY Photoshoot: When’s the last time the two of you were in the same photo? Have you ever been to a restaurant proudly displaying a plaque that read, “Winner of the (So and So) Cook-Off” and thought, “I could make this better! Scour the web for award-winning recipes for chili, cheesecake, carrot cake and anything else you think you and your spouse could make well, and spend the night perfecting that award-winning recipes (think Bobby Flay’s). But there’s nothing better than a fish fry for two. Pick up some lightly scented candles (lavender is a good choice), a CD with tranquil music and a bit of oil for your couple massages. ) and enjoy the best date night at the movies ever! Service For Two Sometimes when things aren’t going the way we want them to in life, we get SO involved with worrying about ourselves that we forget the very thing that we can do to help us feel better: serve others! After they’re done, spend time reading it to one another and then toast with a glass of champagne (or apple cider). SO happy my Scrabble-loving mother didn’t discover this while we were kids!
So embark on an adventure: sneak onto the roof for a talk under the stars or hit the road for a destination-less car trip together.
Introducing a faux sense of novelty is one of the most important ways couples can make love last in a relationship (we've seen the science to back it up). It's about sharing memories with the one you love so you can rediscover each other.
I never knew how difficult it would be to go on dates with my husband once we had a kid! We decided that we would try to have a date night at least twice a month. Rent a four wheeler, snowmobile, scooter, waver runner or something you can do a little exploring on.
We occasionally have a cute, little third wheel on our dates. Of course, you’ll need some popcorn so try our Cinnamon Bear Popcorn Recipe! But for less than , you can imagine where we were seated, right? Our date quickly went up in smoke…literally and figuratively…and we got out of there pretty quickly. You’re never committed to buy anything and they just gave you at least one free date with your honey. Love this idea HWC contributor Paula Rollo came up with when she and her hubby were in a similar predicament last year. But for those lucky enough to have a private backyard, pull the comforter off your bed, grab a bottle of wine and two glasses, and take your date outside. Last night, we were at a Pan-Asian restaurant and they were promoting the upcoming National Noodle Day (October 6th for all you noodle lovers).Over the years, we’ve gotten much better with our frugal dates. Have you noticed that nearly every new fitness studio has a “first class free” special? Workout together and then come home and get washed off together (I’ll let you decide what that means). You have just a few more times to catch a full moon before the year ends so take advantage now. A Moment in Time Seal your time together by constructing and burying a time capsule. So why not create your own national holiday, mark it on your calendar and celebrate it each and every year? There is something incredibly sacred about vowing to love one another til’ death do you part.So we’ve talked about the reasons to keep dating your spouse, and why we haven’t given up on pursuing our relationship…now for some CHEAP ideas to keep things fresh. When Brad and I get the opportunity to enjoy some time out of the house or a night in while the boys are sleeping, we keep it simple and inexpensive. Some of these ideas are home grown, and many are as a result of scouring the web for some of the best inexpensive date nights out there. And if you want to stay in, while still getting in a great workout, have fun with a little Sexercise. Kid-Free Slumber Party: Make a cozy pallet for you and your spouse on the living room floor [with] lots of blankets, pillows, snacks, and movies. Last week, I met a man in his mid-70s who put on his bucket list 40 years ago to travel to more than 200 non-US cities in his lifetime. Gather memorabilia that symbolizes your love for one another. I’d never even thought about this but it makes so much sense. If you live near a beach, lake, stream or riverwalk, this is perfect for you – the stereotypical “walk on the beach” isn’t actually cliche at all. It’s not too late to declare tomorrow National Lazy Day? And the many commitments between your first words and that final line are something worth celebrating.We call it a ‘slumber party.‘ It’s a little silly, but super fun and makes us enjoy the little things in life. He was at #182 and was hitting the road this summer to travel to another 10 more. Grab a couple notebooks and write down all the dreams you hope to accomplish before you ‘kick the bucket’ and decide together which ones you will tackle first (and which ones you can do for free). A wedding invitation, saved wine cork, concert/plane ticket, copy of children’s birth records, meaningful photos, love letters and anything else that is unique to the story of your love. Load it up with tons of hay (if you have some available), sleeping bags, some snacks and a bottle of wine. Hardly anyone is out early at the local parks and you’ll enjoy the lovely light of morning as you sip your steamy lattes, munch on some fruit, take a stroll or just sit around and smooch. This is especially fun if you don’t live in the south and have only seen a fish fry on television. The Mighty Ducks (not kidding, there really was three). Some of the greatest memories I have with my husband are holding hands walking along the water somewhere in the world. Sit across from each other and set the timer for 60 minutes.I will be the first to admit that I am pretty bad at planning any sort of date.Mainly because I work such long hours that an amazing date for me involves staying home, not getting dressed and simply snuggling on the couch not doing much of anything. If the weather doesn’t permit, lay out a blanket on the floor and eat in the living room! Do some research before and look for constellations. Pack a blanket, pillows and food, like our Ham and Swiss Poppy Seed Sandwiches or Chili’s Copycat Salsa, and go somewhere to see the stars.