We have some mutual friends and get along really well with each other.
The problem is, I'm not physically attracted to him. Thanks for asking a question that will be helpful for a lot folks. First, you need to know a few bottom-line truths: 1.
Having said all that, we do believe that physical attraction is germane to a healthy, successful relationship and discourage relationships between two people who get along great, appear to be compatible and yet have no “spark.” Building a great relationship without the excitement and attraction that comes from Little Physical Attraction = Deal Breaker? Remember, a “great person” is not a “great person for you” unless they meet your needs and desires in a partner.
You needn’t feel guilty about your lack of physical chemistry with a person.
No matter what decision you’re making (what to have for dinner…what movie to see…where your next date will be…) just decide what to do next…and then DO it.
This shows inner confidence that women pick up on fast. A lot of guys act cool, brag, and “show off” to get attention and compliments from the women they want.
So make decisions and go with them for better or worse instead of always asking tons of questions and seeking approval. They rattle off “accomplishments.” They shower a woman in gifts and expensive meals. All this does is “telegraph” to a woman that you’re insecure and needy inside.
should be very obvious to someone paying attention to her body language and actions.
If you jokes are lame and she still laughs, that’s an obvious sign she’s got some attraction towards you. She’s touching you first or she returns your touches. Those are just way too many to cover in a single article. It covers most of signs of attraction from women in a fun to read and exciting format. As human beings, we are made to feel physical attraction.It is one of our most powerful mate selection criteria.In other words, they make the lethal mistake of constantly over-explaining and trying to “convince” women to be with them. However, if you get easily emotional and upset about the wrong things (small inconveniences…perceived insults…other guys) then, at best, she’ll judge you to be insecure.The cure is becoming a man who always gets to the point. At worst, she’ll judge you to be an unstable creep.In addition, it’s a sad fact that today in society people often use physical attraction as their “only” gauge of whether to pursue a relationship.This notion is reinforced constantly by our media and leads to large numbers of shallow, dysfunctional and ultimately failed relationships.If you stop talking and she re-initiates the conversation, you’ve got a live one here. Get things moving to where you want to go and lead from there. #3: Take Charge Even the shyest guy in the world can do this.Show the woman you want that you’re the captain of your ship by steering things in the direction that YOU want them to go.